Verse 35: But Peter declared, “Even if I have to die with you, I will never disown you.” And all the other disciples said the same.
Verse 56: But this has all taken place that the writings of the prophets might be fulfilled.” Then all the disciples deserted him and fled.
One of the more common challenges I have seen with others I have worked with is breakups and/or a friend’s betrayal. We were built for community and desire it. Thus, when it doesn’t work out it impacts us emotionally.
A short while back I heard a pastor preach on Matthew 26. One thing that stood out in the moment was how Jesus is relatable to us in this aspect of life as well. Jesus had spent a significant amount of time discipling, and even just hanging, with the 12 disciples. They had seen Jesus perform miracles, display great wisdom, and pour into His friends. However, when the heat hit its highest point at Jesus’ arrest, they “deserted him and fled.”
In consideration of this passage and what happened I came to a couple realizations. First, Jesus understands loneliness and betrayal. Second, Jesus accepted and understood the potential for being let down by others. Third, Jesus valued relationships greatly but in the face of betrayal He kept moving forward with His purpose. It can be helpful for us to consider the same for our lives. Jesus understands our pain and we can take it to Him. We need to accept that others can let us down and prepare to allow grace (as Jesus did later when He met with Peter after the resurrection) be given. Finally, we shouldn’t isolate ourselves or pull away from life. Obviously, there is a place for grief for any loss, including of a relationship, but we must not give up overall.
