The season leading up to a wedding can be a jumble of excitement, stress, anticipation, and anxiety. There is so much planning to do for the big day from the guest list to the venue and everything in between. It’s no wonder that in the midst of all that planning, a couple might forget to prepare for what happens after the flowers have wilted and the sparklers have burned out – the journey of a lifetime with your best friend.
Premarital counseling is such a vital part of setting you and your partner up for years of marital bliss. Check out these stats from the creators of the SYMBIS assessment that prove it:
-Couples with premarital counseling are 31% less likely to get a divorce.
-41% of divorced couples state that a lack of premarital counseling contributed to their separation.
-76% of married couples wish they had premarital counseling.
-Couples without any type of premarital education are more likely to view issues that arise in their relationship as atypical or unsolvable.
The SYMBIS Assessment
The SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) assessment provides an in-depth look at each individual and how their traits dance together as a couple. The assessment is grounded in multiple research studies to ensure its reliability and validity. For the couple participating, it produces a personalized report to identify risk factors and optimize their combined strengths. It can be used as a basis for premarital counseling to ensure thorough preparation.
What to Expect
-A 300 question assessment taken individually by each partner.
-A visually appealing report that reviews topics such as marriage momentum, mindset, well-being, context, and personality and relational dynamics.
-The report is typically reviewed over 5 to 8 sessions with a certified facilitator.
Frequently Asked Questions
What kind of couples is this assessment best suited for?
Couples that are about to be engaged, already engaged, or within the first few years of marriage are ideal candidates for this assessment.
This isn’t my first marriage; can I still participate?
Absolutely! The assessment will recognize this and tailor its results appropriately. There are even additional resources available to help with the unique challenges that could accompany this situation, such as blending families.
Where can I learn more about SYMBIS?
The SYMBIS website contains answered FAQ’s, books, and workbooks that can be used to augment the process.
