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Mary Guynn

If Your Marriage is in Jeopary…Are You Missing the Warning Signs in Your Everyday Life?

Disagreements or differences of opinion
Inconsistencies
Clashes
Quarrels

Did You Miss the Warning Signs?                                 

The warning signs can be missed if you are exhausted from the continuous mental struggle, which can become physical as well.  Warnings signs can be missed if you are “blind to reality” and not ready to accept what is right in front of you.

Did You Choose to Look the Other Way, Even When You Knew the Warning Signs Were There?

Why did you choose to look the other way?  Did the self-imposed distraction make acceptance of the struggle in your unhealthy marriage easier to experience an ephemeral false escape?  Are you afraid of what you may already know?

What You Can Do When Your Marriage Isn’t Working?

When the marriage isn’t working, investigate; ask yourself and your spouse why there is trouble in your marriage.  Find out if you are experiencing the same or similar concerns about the marriage.  Communicate honestly with each other if you want to find out how to resolve the issues rather than seeking to end the marriage.  Focus on the original reasons why you joined together in matrimony.

Mary Guynn

Mary Guynn is a Mental Health Counselor Resident. She is devoted to working with loss, crises and trauma in people’s lives that include the needs of young children, preteens, adolescents, and adults. Outside of work, Mary likes to read, sing, and listen to different genres of music.

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